How To Save Your Broken Relationship

Relationships are one of the most important aspects of our lives. We all want to have healthy, happy relationships with the people we care about most. Unfortunately, many relationships end up breaking down. If you’re struggling in your relationship, don’t give up! There is still hope. In this blog post, we will discuss three tips that will help you save your broken relationship and make it stronger than ever!

The first tip is to have the intention to be great. Relationships take work, and if you’re not willing to put in the effort, your relationship is going to suffer. You need to make a conscious decision to be a good partner and do whatever it takes to make your relationship thrive.

You have to be willing to take time to think about what can I do to be great in this relationship? How can I be intentional in showing my love for my partner?

Taking just a few moments before entering the house, the bedroom, answering the phone call can make all the difference in what will be said and the tone of the conversation.

The second tip is to be present. This means being in the moment and really listening to your partner. When you’re focused on what’s happening right now, you’re less likely to get into arguments about things that happened in the past or things that might happen in the future. Being present allows you to enjoy each and every moment with your loved one.

Being present is finding out more about their day, taking a genuine interest in their problems. Showing that you are listening.

It can be simple as asking further questions on the topic that they are discussing.

Here are a couple of questions you can ask:

How was your day?

What did you do today?

Tell me more about this…

How did that make you feel?

The third and final tip is to focus on three powerful intentions: attention, appreciation, and adoration. When you give your partner your attention, show them how much you appreciate them, and adore them for who they are, your relationship will be rock solid!

Attention:

When you give your partner your attention, they feel important and special. It lets them know that they are a priority in your life and that you care about them. This means sitting there and talking. Not being on your phone addicted to social media. You can do this before bed.

In fact, this is what my parents do, when they get into bed they will spend about 10 minutes or so just talking about their days, even if they have not been up to much! The idea behind this is you are showing a willingness to enquire.

As human beings, we love talking about ourselves, and to have someone ask about our days we feel happier and are willing to share.

More Appreciation: Showing your partner how much you appreciate them is one of the best ways to strengthen your relationship. It can be as simple as saying thank you for doing the dishes or telling them how much you appreciate them being in your life.

This is not to be confused with thanking them for doing things for you, it is not appreciating them cooking food, or cleaning up. That is a false love that is conditional love, which will not last. More appreciation is for the little parts of life, the way they handled a situation at work, them getting up early to do overtime to help support the family. It is the flowers and chocolates you get for no other reason than for them being with you.

When we show true appreciation, we become more connected with our partners.

Adoration: Adoring your partner is a way of telling them that you love and accept them for who they are. It’s about seeing the best in them and celebrating their accomplishments.

These three tips are just a starting point. If you want to have an amazing relationship, you need to put in the work and constantly strive to improve yourself. The key is to never give up on your relationship and always remember that love is worth fighting for!

Relationships are one of the most important aspects of our lives. We all want to have healthy, happy relationships with the people we care about most. Unfortunately, many relationships end up breaking down. If you’re struggling in your relationship, don’t give up! There is still hope.

Until tomorrow this is your coach Andy.